How to handle a long distance relationship?
At the beginning of a remote relationship one asks many questions. How to deal with lack and jealousy? How to involve the other in the relationship? How to know if the distance will separate us? Rest assured, to live a relationship long distance fulfilled is possible! Here are some testimonials and tips to get there.
Remote love is possible
A Latin proverb
says "Far from the eyes, far from the heart". The mutual affection of
two distant beings would weaken with time ... Not very optimistic as a vision!
At a time when it
has never been so easy to fly and communicate, there are many examples that
contradict this statement! Distance is no longer synonymous with absence! It is
now possible to speak to the beloved even if he is on the other side of the
Atlantic.
But how to build
a lasting relationship? The most important thing is to trust the other. It's
even the basis of a distant love. Without this trust, it will be difficult to
build a relationship.
The second point
is patience. Even if you miss her arms, you have to take on yourself.
The remote relation avoids the routine
Physical
separation can make the couple even stronger. This test reinforces the feelings
and maintains the flame. No routine or conflict with distance! You are all to
the other when you communicate. And no trouble! You have lots of things to tell
you.
The reunion is
unforgettable, it is a new meeting every time: the heart that beats, sweaty
hands and the stress that rises.
And hugs under
the duvet ... Because love at a distance feeds desire! A recent American study
even showed that couples living far away more easily open to each other and
share more intimate moments. Better yet, these relationships would last longer!
Distance love can be hard to bear
Unfortunately,
some people find it difficult to support separation on a daily basis. Coming
home from work and finding no one to comfort and pamper us is difficult.
Distance love requires a lot of strength! And compromises!
After an idyllic
romance in a foreign country, the return to reality is not easy. We interpret
certain sentences, we learn that the other met new people ... And our
imagination does the rest!
Be careful not to
rush into a vicious circle. To over idealize the relationship, we move away
from each other and the paths separate. At that moment, the temptation is great
to succumb to the first comer. It's better to take time to think before you
start.
The keys to a successful remote relationship
If trust is the
basis of any distance relationship, communication is paramount. Sending SMS,
emails or videos with sweet little words and attentions. With a good internet
connection, you can exchange very often and see you by interposed cameras.
Try sextos and
naughty photos ... Imagine and spice up your marriage!
If your lover
lives in Brazil, it's important not to live on Copacabana! Keep your pace of
life by trying to plan two-to-one moments. You must not cut yourself off from
your friends and activities, otherwise you will forget yourself.
And if all goes
well, why not plan? And imagine a rapprochement, or even a move in the same
city? The future belongs to those who start projects, so go for it!
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