How to Make a Crazy Man Lover of You
Do you want to know how to make a crazy man in love with you? Do not look far, read on.
It's been a few
weeks or months since you're dating and you're already feeling under Cupid's
powers. The only problem is that you can not read your partner, where you feel
that he really appreciates you, but that something, a little nothing is missing
to ignite in him the spark of love. Love is a feeling and by definition can not
be controlled and is not invented, certainly, but a boost is more than
recommended, you are then in charge of giving the first match to light the
flame, which is hope, will not go off anytime soon.
Here are my tips
to give a boost to love and transform a "I really appreciate you" in
a "I love you" most sincere. In other words, how to make him in love
and stiff with you!
Make a man in love: Know how to distance yourself!
After a few
weeks, even if he really appreciates you, your man does not want to consider
himself as your savior and your only crutch. You are an independent adult, at
least you were before meeting him, so do not waste while becoming totally
dependent on him. Know how to stay autonomous, even distant and absent from
time to time. Not only will you miss him more and more, but he will realize
that it becomes more and more difficult to be away from you.
It is not about
playing the extremes by going on a humanitarian mission for 3 months in South
Africa, it is about playing in the subtlety. Do not answer his text messages or
his callers as soon as you receive them, let him wait a little. You have a life
outside of this relationship, so show it by not being available at all times.
Likewise, do not
sacrifice your life before, continue to see your friends and practice your
hobbies. You can invite him to join you, because it is important to share
within the couple. Nevertheless, be aware of mystery and your habits of your
life before. This will also help you not to feel helpless if a break (we hope
not) will happen in the future. It is important that you keep your group of
friends each one of your side. Of course, it is nice for each member of the
couple to get along with each other's friends, however you do not want them to
consider you now only as a couple, a single entity that is not possible to to
separate ; you each have your personality.
The woman of
today wants to be autonomous and independent, while knowing how to make herself
indispensable. That's why, in addition to showing your man that you have
character and a life outside of your relationship, you will need to play your
tricks to be indispensable.
To make a man in
love, and to keep him, one of the important points is to avoid tiring him.
Surprises, breaks routines and play multiple facets of your personality are all
elements involved in this design.
Surprise him, and say no to the routine!
From the
beginning of your relationship, your role is to show your man that with you he
will not be bored. Beware however, the arguments, melodramas and crises of
tears are all events that help to break the boredom, however these are not
really the attitudes that we have in mind when we think about the different
stratagems and methods to make a man in love.
We think of
surprises and the unexpected, certainly, but in a register that is more fun and
that is written later in the box good memories rather than in the box "How
I could stay with this crazy for more 3 months! "
Among the "breaks-routines" that we can mention:
- Avoid (as long as he's not totally madly in love with you!), All that we would call kills-love: loose pajamas with teddy bears, apartment whose floor looks like a basket of dirty clothes , job / TV / Dodo ... that's common sense and you may find that I do not need to repeat this advice; but keep in mind that common sense is one of the first things we forget when we talk about love and when we feel confident and perfectly at ease with each other!
- Surprise him. Know how to reveal, as your relationship progresses, the different facets of your personality. Book a mystery, do not give it right away. If after a few weeks or a few months your man already knows everything about you, then it's a bad start because men need to be surprised not to be tired.
Also, surprise
him with actions and attitudes that he thinks are miles away from your
personality. For example, if you are rather casual and reserved, organize a
surprise outing where you can let go and show that you know how to party.
On the contrary,
if you are more of a party and extrovert nature, organize a quiet and romantic
evening. Candlelight dinner, romantic evening videos ...
Be all the women of his life.
In the same vein,
to make a man in love with you, and especially not to tire your man and in
addition to showing different facets of yourself, go essential. Indeed, as
adults, men need landmarks and the different people around them bring them
different aspects necessary for their balance and their development. To
caricature (but not so much that finally!), Here is the usual pattern that we
find for the social circle of most men:
- The best friend: unmatched since attending your man since primary school, neighbor of the family home, first crush, appreciated by parents, she knows everything about your man and he knows everything about her. Not easy you tell me, especially when he presented it for the first time, it was to ask him his opinion (and approval!) About you. Step one, befriend her to avoid conflict with your man, because at this point in the relationship, we know who he will choose in case of conflict. Do not overdo it, however, because she will soon realize that you are not sincere. With your man, without trying to dethrone her, act in the same way that she would act with him: be attentive ear when he speaks to you of his troubles at work and the welcoming shoulder when he pity on his fate.
- Mother: watch out for slippery terrain. It's crazy as the most educated men, activist for gender equality and the sharing of household chores, as soon as he passes the threshold of the family home becomes the perfect son of his favorite mom who passes all the whims and who will never get up from his chair to help rid the dinner table that mom took 3 hours to prepare. Without going to extremes and acting in the same way that your mother does with your man, remember the qualities of a mother and make her irreplaceable, but still a model to follow: she has the sense of listening to her, she does not judge the mistakes of her son, she encourages him in all that he does, and above all, she is proud of them. Where is the big effort for you? Especially since a woman in love already feels most of these feelings for his man.
In addition to
being the woman of her dreams for your physical attributes, your conversation
and your sense of humor, know how to borrow from the other women of his life
their qualities, instead of being jealous of them and anguish because you will
never be able to replace them in his heart. They probably think the same thing.
The difference is that unlike them, you can borrow their qualities, which is
not reciprocal!
Do not get in too much trouble and do not put yourself in an inferior position.
Man is a fearful
animal. A little too much turmoil in his life, too much responsibility and
change in his daily life, a pedestal erected for him and here is a man
helpless, apprehensive and who will prefer to flee.
By this I mean
that you have to be careful not to rush your man.
Voici donc pour vous une liste de conseils à suivre pour que
votre homme ne se sente pas traqué, pris au piège et un peu trop indispensable
:
- First of all, never forget that you are not yet elected and that nothing and no one is ever fully acquired, and what is more at this stage of the relationship. Do not bombard him with gnan-gnan messages, phone calls where you have no specific purpose or questions to ask him and especially, but most importantly, avoid jealousy attacks. Certainly your man needs to feel appreciated and to feel that he can build a future with you, but he does not want to be the only frame on which your whole life and your balance rests.
- Do not criticize his entourage or his way of being. If after just a few months you use your energy to focus on what you do not like at home and let him know, I will not bet much on the survival of your relationship. In addition, ask yourself the question: if I spend my time focusing on its flaws and criticizing it, is it really worth it? Do I really appreciate it?
It's the same for
his friends, do not get his friends back. In contrast, do not overdo it, do not
try to create a fake complicity with them. Just know how to keep the sense of
proportion and behave with them in a civilized and mature adult. If your
friends are trying to become his friends too, it will be over the months, not
after a few weeks when you have forced their hand!
I hope these tips
will help you. To summarize, let's say that the best attitude to adopt is to
stay yourself, the one by whom he was first attracted, while being mysterious,
surprising, sexy, with a great sense of listening, romantic, festive ... Not
easy you tell me!
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